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i don't want a babe shower
i'm currently 24 weeks meaning and i don't want a baby shower at all. dorsum story, i went to my boyfriend'south cousin's baby shower when i was 20 weeks and since and so i haven't wanted ane. i had just started showing so everyone i knew there who knew we are expecting drew a lot of attending to me and my bump. my boyfriend loved it, he loved showing me and our baby off to his family since i've insisted staying very private during our pregnancy. only i take astringent social and generalized anxiety it's keeping me on edge. i've had to go off my medications completely due to it being harmful to the babe and the medications that are safe did non assist me at all or left me with bad side furnishings.
back to my baby shower. i originally was going to selection out the theme, games, food, basically program information technology myself because i like things done my way just my mom and boyfriend's mom were going to "throw it." after we attended his cousin's shower, i told him i didn't want one, that planning it was stressing me out, and the thought of all the attention on me has been giving me anxiety attacks and he was very understanding. he told his mom, he says he told her everything i told him.
and so she comes over to my house to speak to me and my mom well-nigh how her and my mom volition plan everything and i merely accept to provide a guest list. i politely said thank you for want to throw me a shower but i'm not comfortable with having one. she told me that it volition be fine because they will take care of everything and starting talking near all the family on their side that she wants to invite (which is already too many for my liking) then discussed how she and my boyfriend would feel bad for non inviting my fathers side of my family unit(i'g not on good terms with them, especially my father) because they would experience bad for non including them.
and to top it off, she already told my sister the date of the shower so my sis bought a plane ticket from Texas to Illinois for that weekend and then she tin can be there.
the shower is set for april 27th just i'm really not comfortable having one only everyone is insisting i accept one because it will help us financially. nobody is respecting my decision to not accept one and i don't know what to do
*this was a lot longer than i planned, i just needed to vent somewhere because nobody is listening to what i have to say*
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